“Worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do, but it gets you nowhere.” – Glenn Turner, Cricket Player

I’ve had a lot on my mind lately, and they are all things I shouldn’t have let my mind ponder about. Worrying sucks and it’s completely pointless.

I’ve felt pretty calm in my life lately, even with all the things changing in my day to day. I have goals and wants and needs I have to set sail for, but I am so confident they will arrive exactly when they are meant to.

I have a great day job, but I am ready for something in more of a managerial matter. Will that be with the current company I work for? It could be, but it could also be somewhere else.

I want a bigger house, but I don’t know where that house is. It could be a few blocks and years away, or it could be a few cities and few months away. I want a career as a writer, but I don’t know when that will be my every day. Until then, I’m here writing for the 14 sets of eyes that clink the link for the time being.

Once again, I think of Jen Sincero’s “You Are A Badass” and how she taught me that everything you desire is already yours. In some infinity-energetic-level in the divine universe, everything is already mine. Whatever it is, it will show up right when you need it.

I’ve seen the proof.

At one point in my life, I left my high-paying shift-work job because it was draining me. I took a HUUUUUGE pay cut and still had four-figure rent to pay. I made the switch because I was ready to take more time for myself at home and to be available to work on music more.

My wage went from $29.75 an hour, to $19.25 an hour. Then I joined Orange Theory Fitness, which was about $150 per month. I had a two-bedroom apartment with eight months remaining on the lease. I needed to get a roommate to be able to pay rent. I put out an ad and that was all I had to do.

I made a decision to cut my wages for the greater good, and everything ended up working out perfectly. My roommate was a woman from Quebec I never met before, but we got along great. I went to the gym more often and got in better shape. Aaaaannnnddd it lead to me getting the opportunity to play live music more often. If I didn’t leave my shift work job, I wouldn’t have gotten the gig with Great Northern Railway.

It was definitely easier to make those choices when I was a single man, and now it’s very different because I have a family to take care of, but the practice remains the same. The money, the house, the job, the circumstance, it’s all there already.

I’m writing this at a time when the money has gotten a lot tighter. We had a family weekend where we spent a lot of money, and it seems like there’s always something else that we need to spend money on. I’d love to see a zero balance on my credit card debt, but that sometimes has to wait.

But I’m lucky because I still have the roof and the food over my head and on the table. I have two running vehicles that get me from A to B. I’m never alone in the house, there’s always somebody or some four-legged creature to cuddle and snuggle.

When I’m starting to notice the “feeling down” tick, I think about my vision board, and how I’ve already manifested 50% of what I put on it, I feel the luxury of knowing the rest is on its way!

Everything is going to work out the way it was intended to. It just does.

Think about whatever you’re worrying about, and find a mantra that will eliminate the stress from your brain. The opening quote is a great one!

Remember, whatever you want is already yours. Whatever you need is on its way.